Socializing a Shy Dog

Properly socializing shy, timid dogs eliminates fear-based aggression. It also allows you and your furry friend to enjoy trips and activities together that are impossible with (and terrifying for) a fearful dog. Use these tips to design positive, productive training experiences that transform your bashful pup into a confident companion.

Set the Place, Not the Pace

Introduce new people in a place where your dog feels safe, allowing the dog to make the first move rather than letting strangers approach him. Visit with guests as usual and let your dog decide if he wishes to introduce himself. Pushing too hard can cause aggression, so provide opportunities for your dog to socialize but don't force him into contact he doesn't want.

Avoid Coddling

When your puppy shows fearful behavior, such as whimpering or hiding, resist the urge to calm her. Talking in a soothing voice, stroking her and picking her up all unintentionally reward her for showing fear. Instead, ignore your dog when she exhibits fearful behavior at inappropriate times.

Positive Reinforcement

Avoid rewarding unwanted behavior, but always praise shy dogs when they display confidence and bravery. Reward a timid dog with treats, attention and praise when he exhibits positive behaviors. Positive reinforcement is more effective than attempting to punish unwanted actions.

Treat After

When training a dog with treat or food rewards, always treat after a positive behavior rather than using the treat to procure the behavior. Food can lure a dog into a situation outside her comfort level. When the food distraction is gone, the dog may suddenly feel exposed and lash out in fear.

One-on-One Training

Ironically, socialization training is best begun in private sessions rather than group classes. Learning and practicing basic obedience skills strengthens the bond between dog and owner, giving both the confidence to stay calm and trust each other later in more stressful and distracting socialization exercises.

Keep It Simple

Socializing dogs involves new experiences as well as new people and animals. Exploring new sounds, sights, smells, textures, weather and tastes all build confidence. Things as simple as ice cubes, paper bags and opening umbrellas are interesting to puppies or under-socialized pets.

Proper training helps meek dogs face the world with excitement rather than fear. To set your dog up for success, allow her to set the pace during socialization activities and provide her with an escape route in case things get too intense. Her curiosity will overcome her trepidation with time and patience.